Prostitution Must Be Legalized: A Former Sex Worker’s Opinion

Prostitution must be legalized. If a person feels their best career opportunity
is in the sex industry, it should be their right to pursue that line of
work.

Many well-educated, well-intentioned people have told me that it's in
a sex worker's best interest for prostitution to be illegal, because legalizing
it condones and legitimizes it. None of these people have ever worked
in the sex industry. The only thing criminalizing prostitution does is
insure that sex workers, many of them women with no resources, will be
punished. Poor, hungry, undereducated, unskilled, ill-equipped women who
are already being punished every day in every city of America. By johns,
by pimps, by cops.

Prohibition does not work. We proved that already in our country. The
only thing criminalizing sex work does is put the business into the paws
of both organized and unorganized crime. If sex work were licensed and
controlled by an organization that aggressively protected the rights of
sex workers, perhaps they wouldn't be stabbed, shot, raped, harassed,
jailed and forced to give freebies to every cop with an attitude. With
tax revenue generated from the sex industry, scholarship and trade education
programs could be set up for sex workers, in addition to health, drug,
and career counseling.

Many sex workers have been sexually abused. By a parent, an uncle, a
cousin, or a total stranger. An abuse survivor needs help to break the
patterns this abuse produces, as well as the damage abuse does to the
brain. Many sex workers want help, and there is no one to help them. But
some don't.

And that is their right.

If your options are to make four dollars an hour flipping burgers, or
$500 a day turning tricks, suddenly selling your sex doesn't seem quite
so unreasonable.

In a utopian society there would be no prostitution. There would be enough
love to go around so people didn't feel they had to try to buy it. People
would express their love freely in all kinds of intercourse, not just
sexual. There would be interesting and profitable work for everyone. There
would be no bigotry, no orphans, no sexually abused children.

But we do not live in a utopia. We live in America. There's always been
a sex industry in America. And business is booming, even as we speak.

Because we live in an erotophobic society that represses natural sexuality,
we make sex work a heinous act. If a person has skill at sex, and they
don't feel guilty or suffer from it, why isn't their skill as valued as
any other essential skill, like building a house, or talking someone down
from the ledge?

Instead of burying our heads in the sands of utopianism, or condemning
sex workers with moralistic puritanism, we must be protecting the valiant
men and women of the sex business. Monitor the industry to eliminate violence
and decease. Tax it and use the money to help educate, enlighten, and
train sex workers.

Prostitution must be legalized.

 

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Since David Sterry left the sex business at 17, he graduated from
Reed College, worked as a migrant fruit picker, a stand-up comic, a soda
jerk, a human guinea pig, an athlete, an actor? (he worked with everyone
from Will Smith to Michael Caine to Zippy the Chimp); the emcee at Chippendale’s
male strip club; a writer (stand-up comedy, scripts for Disney, Fox, and
Jerry Bruckheimer, published poet); a TV spokesman (AT&T, Crest, Isuzu,
McDonald, etcetcetc.); and a marriage counselor.

sterry book

On David Sterry's Chicken:
Self Portrait of a Young Man for Rent

Chicken (Harper-Collins, Feb.
2002) is the dark, savage, funny journey of David Sterry from sweet, polite,
wide-eyed son of the Seventies Suburbia, to a $500-an-hour sadorageaholic
sexually compulsive sex worker. In answering the question: how did a nice
boy like this end up in the dark seed-filled underbelly of Hollywood,
Chicken
takes the reader on a walk along the razor-sharp line between
painful innocence and the allure of the abyss.

An excerpt from Chicken:/p>

I walk all the way up Hollywood Boulevard
to Grauman's Chinese Theater: past turistas snapping shots; wanna-be starlets sparkling by in mini-skirts with head shots in
their hands and moondust in their eyes; rowdy cowboys drinking with drunken Indians; black businessmen
bustling by briskly in crisp suits; ladies who do not lunch with nylons rolled up below the knee
pushing shopping carts full of everything they own; Mustangs rubbing up
against muscular Mercedes and Hell's Angels hogs. It's a sick twisted
Wonderland, and I am Alice.

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